need a sign to improve my love life

My love life is very confusing I'm sad discouraged very insecure and my self confidence is very low need someone to vent to everyone fills my head somehow some people say to me then my life in front of diamonds say I need to persist in my dating since we love my girlfriend does not know what to do qe need a light any sign to tell me what should I do with my life But I learned the hard way that life does not send notice and you have to learn missing suffering rising and falling losing finally winning achieving its objectives and keeping your relationship going strong with a lot of willpower lot of love and struggle. Two phrases define my way of thinking "always fight never give up" "No sacrifice, no victory."